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父母天天吵架，有一年闹分居，小小年纪的我竟然想到坏点子-不好好念书来报复，我依然记得自己当时的想法，父母平日最在乎担心的就是我的学业成绩，如果我考试考不好，父母有可能会因为不影响我而复合，所以我实行了这么轻松简单的策略（不念书）我从班级的前三名掉到十几名，看到他们紧张担心的反应我心里暗爽自己成功了。不出我所料，父母后来复合不离婚不分居了。
所以说别小看小孩子的心思，同样的上面说的的学生，可能也是脑子里想着什么才会这么做。
，自己的前途自己掌握，若是选择了这样的路，自己就承担这一切的后果。总结，一个家庭的沟通也非常重要，所谓的沟通，是真心认真的听进去，不是我说你就得听/做。问题提出来大家分析然后找方法解决。希望这类的原生家庭问题可以越来越少
